A few of my favorites, in no particular order, much like my bookshelf:
Epstein, Mark. Going to pieces without falling apart: A Buddhist perspective on wholeness.
Attwood, Tony. The Complete Guide to Asperger’s Syndrome.
Schnarch, David. Passionate Marriage: Keeping love and intimacy alive in committed relationships.
Gottman, John. Why marriages succeed or fail.
Katherine, Anne. Where to draw the line: How to set healthy boundaries every day.
Katherine, Anne. Boundaries: Where you end and I begin.
Richo, David. How to be an adult: A handbook on psychological and spiritual integration.
Richo, David. How to be an adult in relationships.
Richo, David. When the past is present.
Siegel, Daniel and Hartzell, Mary. Parenting from the inside out: How a deeper self-understanding can help you raise children who thrive.
Richardson, Cheryl. Take time for your life.
Carlsen, Mary Baird. Meaning-making: Therapeutic processes in adult development.
Mate, Gabor. Scattered Minds: A new look at the origins and healing of attention deficit disorder.
Gershon, Michael. The second brain: A groundbreaking new understanding of nervous disorders of the stomach and intestine.
Simone, Rudy. Asperger’s on the job: Must-have advice for people with Asperger’s or High Functioning Autism and their employers, educators and advocates.
Llinas, Rodolfo. I of the vortex: From neurons to self.
Siegel, Daniel. Mindsight: The new science of personal transformation.
Kabat-Zinn, Jon. Full catastrophe living: Using the wisdom of your body and mind to face stress, pain and illness.
Cozolino, Louis. The neuroscience of human relationships: Attachment and the developing social brain.
Rothschild, Babette. Help for the Helper: The psychophysiology of compassion fatigue and vicarious trauma.